Deacon Michael and Mary Frances Berstene

Deacon Michael and Mary Frances Berstene live in Tolland where they are active at the Blessed Sacrament Parish with churches in Rockville-Vernon and Tolland. Deacon Michael has been a deacon in the Diocese of Norwich for 32 years. He is currently a Paulist Deacon Affiliate. He has served as the Director of Deacons for the Diocese of Norwich and is the former director of the Maryknoll Deacon Mission Partners program. He was the director of planning and development for the Diaconate Institute at the Pontifical College Josephinum. Mary Frances is a lector, communion minister, bible study leader and coordinates the marriage preparation for our parish. She is a former Catholic school teacher, faith formation director.

 

Deacon Michael and Mary Frances have lead retreats for deacons and wives and for married couples across the country. From 2015 through 2019 they led the married couples retreats at St Edmund Retreat.

Upcoming Programs by Deacon Michael and Mary Frances Berstene

Sharing God’s Love at the Margins: A Deacon Couples Weekend

February 13 - 15, 2026

As couples who have been shaped by God’s love and whose lives have been profoundly impacted by the diaconate, we are called to bring God’s love to those at the margins of life. Join us for a weekend reflection on the gift of love that we have been given and the gift of love that […]